Question 1

Do You Use Setlists Or Read The Crowd?

Accepted Answer

This one’s all about trust. Will the band play what you ask them to, or just play their normal set? There’s only one way to find out: talk to them! Ask to see their setlist, choose your favourites, and send them a list of your favourites (but not too many). But, ultimately, you need to trust them and leave it up to them to read the crowd and play the right songs.

In our experience, all weddings are different: some will start more relaxed, whereas at others the guests want to get up and dance straight away. It’s important that your wedding band can read the room and adjust their settings accordingly. A good band will keep the energy levels up, get all the guests involved and make sure everyone is having a good time – but also play your favourite songs.

Question 2

Will The Band Learn Special Song Requests?

Accepted Answer

Most professional musicians will take song requests – if provided in advance – to try and learn before the wedding day. At one wedding, Squid Lips were asked to play techno music by a couple who had met at a rave. So they played their version of a popular track, using their instruments: Injecting the band’s personality into a favourite song can create something more unique and special than simply playing the original – and it’s more meaningful because of the time they’ve invested in learning it.

Question 3

How Will The Band Be Dressed?

Accepted Answer

When you’re planning your wedding, you want all the elements to look coherent and to fit your theme – and this should include the band!

If you can’t judge their style from their website or social media, talk to the band to find out what they plan to wear on the day. In many cases, this will depend on the bride and groom's wishes.

During our conversation, they are kitted out in waistcoats and ski boots, which is a look they would rock at a wedding if the couple requested it. They’ll happily wear whatever the couple asks them to, whether it’s a hula theme or toga party. By getting involved in the theme of the day, they can help add to the atmosphere.

Question 4

How Long Will It Take You To Set Up?

Accepted Answer

Ideally, the band you choose will work with your other suppliers to handle any technical aspects and logistics, so you don’t have to. This includes working out an itinerary for setting up that works for everyone. The band will set up their instruments and sound system before the guests arrive if time and the venue allows. Unfortunately, this isn’t always possible, so a speedier setup can be done if needed. Whatever the case, your band should make sure the setup is as stress-free and unobtrusive for you as possible.

Question 5

What Music Will Be Provided During The Breaks?

Accepted Answer

Your wedding band won’t be playing non-stop from start to finish, so it’s worth considering what will happen before and after their set, as well as during any breaks. Ask the band what music they plan to provide during these breaks. A good wedding band will make sure that the music starts the minute their set ends. Everything should run seamlessly so that your guests aren’t aware of what’s happening in the background. The music they play also needs to be appropriate for the mood. If people are already up and dancing, the music should keep them dancing!

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